Expect the Unexpected
- createstorieswiths
- Feb 14, 2022
- 7 min read
Updated: Aug 4, 2022
From catastrophes to calamities, we’ve seen it all. Luckily, we had a solution for all of them - so you can focus
on the #1 most important wedding day detail!

Photo courtesy of VMF Film Co
What if I asked you: What’s the most important aspect of your wedding day for you?
Did all of your favorite details come to mind? You might have first thought of your dream dress, the perfect venue, a famous florist, or even sunny weather. However, did you remember to think of your love for each other?
It can be so easy to become caught up in all of the small details and tiny designs that go into planning a wedding - in fact, you might even be feeling more anxious and overwhelmed than in love! One major perk of hiring a professional, skilled planner for your special day: you have more time and energy to focus on your romantic last days of your engagement, as you prepare for your exciting new life together as a married couple.
An experienced wedding or elopement planner like Micro Miami can help turn your wedding stress into pre-marriage romance by handling the small details and backup plans more efficiently on your behalf. We all often seek expert advice: we see a doctor when we’re feeling ill, take advice from certified trainers for fitness, and drop our car off at the mechanic when the engine light comes on. It only makes sense to work with an expert when planning one of the biggest days of your life! Read on for some exciting, sweet, and just plain laughable behind-the-scenes stories of times that working with a professional at Micro Miami Weddings saved the day for these newlyweds…and a personal story from my own wedding troubles!
The DIY That Disintegrated
Imagine walking down the aisle, nervous and excited to meet your partner at the end of the aisle. The music starts up, the procession begins, you take a deep breath and start walking to the front…and suddenly see your bridal arbor snap in half in front of your eyes!
his sounds like a scene from a wedding nightmare, but it happened to a real bride who DIY’d the prettiest wedding arbor set. As she was quite literally walking down the aisle, the wind picked up at the venue and the arbor snapped in half at the bottom!
Luckily, we were there to save the day…Micro Miami thought quickly to roll the wedding cocktail barrels to the arbor, quickly zip-tie the pieces together, and keep the arbor whole for the bridal procession! When the bride arrived at the front of the aisle, all eyes were focused back on her as she said her vows, with a decor crisis narrowly averted. Saving the day in this case was only possible with the help of a quick-thinking planner like MMW…since she was pretty busy walking down the aisle when the unexpected struck!
The Peanut Gallery Debate
If everyone in your family and bridal party agreed with all of your choices when you first presented your wedding ideas to them, congratulations - you’re very lucky! Not everyone sees eye-to-eye with the engaged couple when planning a wedding, but your wedding planner can be a God-send when it comes to having someone on your side.

Photo courtesy of The Tinsley Co.
One couple we worked with came to us stressed out and overwhelmed because it seemed like everyone they spoke to at home was questioning their plans, going against their wishes, and unsupportive of their ideas. What a nightmare! We reminded them of what counts: your wedding day at its root is simply a reflection of your love and commitment to each other…so the only opinions that truly matter are your own!
If you want us to plan a wedding with cheese pizza slices as an entrée, we’re all for it, and that’s exactly what we’ll do! Maybe you both absolutely love pizza, order from your favorite pizzeria every Friday for date night, or meet at a pizza shop near you. We want your wedding day to authentically express who you are as a couple, and resonate with your love for each other that led you to plan this wedding in the first place. It’s your special day - so let’s make it all about you! We’re here to always be on your side and make your dreams come true…not anyone else’s.
The Downpour in the Dark
If rain on your wedding day is your worst nightmare, you’re not alone. One of our brides was planning for an outdoor wedding, since her mother really wanted to host the ceremony outside. However, the weather was looking questionable for the day, so we suggested an indoor location to avoid any weather-related stress. In the end, we went with her adamant wishes for an outdoor ceremony, since you are the one who ultimately makes the calls!
The day arrived, and so did the worst-case scenario: right as the ceremony was set up, rain started pouring down. Luckily, we were quick on our feet - MMW picked up all 80 chairs by hand, carted them indoors at record speed, and improvised an on-the-fly beautiful indoor wedding! A good planner is worth their weight in gold to improvise a perfect solution; we’ve seen endless crises, and have learned to always expect the unexpected.
But…
Just as we thought everything was sorted, catastrophe struck yet again out of the blue: the lights vendor was nowhere to be found! We needed to think quickly. The booked vendor never showed up, but we were able to create absolute magic out of nowhere! We took a spotlight that was laying on the ground at the venue, set it up, and created the most beautiful, aesthetic environment for the indoor venue using the lights available to us…and it looked just like the bride’s dream outdoor sunset wedding setting!

Photo courtesy of Marla Mcleod
The Case of the Missing Florals
We love an exotic destination wedding, and we know our brides do, too. Sometimes though, destinations can come with their own set of unexpected mishaps! Paraguay is a unique location for a wedding, but last year during the pandemic, there were shipping issues with flowers. Rare is the wedding that would be complete without some stunning florals, so this was a problem we had to solve to save the day!
Being a planner can mean taking up the mantle for several jobs at once: serving as your friend, advocate, assistant, and even emergency floral stylist! MMW was able to clip stunning leaves and beautiful flowers from the venue space - and turn the local flora into the coolest centerpieces for our couple! As an added bonus, these floral pieces were a little extra special, since they were local to the couple’s dream setting in Paraguay. Sometimes, a problem just requires a little creativity, resourcefulness, and experience to turn into a positive.
In another case, for a last-minute romantic elopement in Philadelphia, the team couldn’t find appropriate flowers for the bride! Every bride deserves a stunning bouquet to offset her dress on her special day, so we stepped in with some creative solutions yet again. We created the most jaw-dropping bouquet selection for her, using local flowers and branches from the city streets in spring! From a huge showstopper white natural bouquet that perfectly complemented her dress to a smaller bright set full of every color of the rainbow, we were even able to offer multiple choices for her to choose from. You never know what amazing solutions your planner will be able to come up with, but we have a solution for every unexpected wedding day calamity!

Photo courtesy of Dima Osko Photography
My story…
From trials to troubles, messes to mix-ups, problems to predicaments… weddings can come with their fair share of unexpected issues that you can’t possibly plan for ahead of time.
I’ve been there. I was a COVID bride - with so many uncertainties during the pandemic, it felt like I had more questions than answers when planning my own wedding. Our venue choice even cancelled our booking! We were planning originally on a beautiful Paris wedding, but things fell through. When that didn’t happen, we hired a professional to help us make a backup plan for our day! This just goes to show: sometimes, even the professionals need another professional to help out when things get tough! Thought the booking issues were sorted, we had our own set of unexpected tragedy to work through when my aunt and uncle passed away due to COVID a few days before our wedding date. I’d like to remind you now that mindset matters a lot on your day.
You often can’t change the circumstances you’re dealt, but you can change your outlook on them. All that actually matters for your weeding is that you get to marry your best friend and gain a spouse for life - not the losses around your venue, your flowers, or even tragedy. Adopt the mentality that it might not be exactly how you initially wanted it, but your wedding day will still be everything it’s meant to be…because in the end, you’re marrying your very best friend!
Choosing to work with a skilled planner means you don’t have to worry when surprises pop up and we can help you change your mindset to appreciate your special day for all of the blessings that it is. We are truly rooting for you, have seen it all, and are here to make it all about you! Broken arches and missing lights might seem like the apocalypse for your perfect ceremony, but we promise there’s a solution for everything.
We’re here to help and make your dreams come true. Don’t forget amidst all the stress and the details: your wedding is a celebration of your love first and foremost. What’s most important is that you’re able to focus on your love and your fiancé(e), and leave the details to us! Let’s make your dreams come true and give you a day you’ll never forget for all the right reasons.
Did you have a wedding day “surprise” happen? Leave us a comment on the blog! Ready to work with us to make your special day as stress-free and seamless as it can be? Send us a message on our inquiry page - we’re here for you!
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